Question

Do you know anyone who is happier behind bars than when they're free?

Answer 1

Yes, I have a cousin who's a bartender.   He loves chatting with the regulars.

Answer 2

No probably everyone I know are happier being free.

Answer 3

with the ministry and family i live with (not my family). i might as well be behind bars. 

Comments

*hugs* Skunky

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Thanks very much *hugs* back  :( i pretty much had to fight for the freedom i have now (with lots of complaints). Before i moved in with this family, i had no idea that i was gunna be treated like a little kid with no freedom to do anything or go anywhere by myself. if i knew beforehand, i wouldn't have moved in (i would have just stayed with my parents and got better on my own without their help), now that i have a little more freedom to go out by myself, i do push the boundaries as much as i can (i come home later in the evening and i don't even call them anymore to let them know where i am)

although, i do feel bad for my housemate because he doesn't have the chance to earn freedoms like i do. he will be treated like a 5 year old for as long as he lives there, im sure he's use to it by now since he's been living there for 8 years (he doesn't know any different than living under our caretakers mind control cult tactics)

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@ Skunky  I moved in with a Land Lady in her 60's in my early 20's and She nearly drove me insane , She would lock me in the Bungalow and my friends were waiting for me.

She attacked me with a Steaming hot Iron  lolz that was like a scene out of the Omen , She accused me of stealing , She called me a Whore for staying out with my Boyfriend because I could never bring anyone back to her home.

She Bitched if I was going out to dinner because She would cook a meal for me , even though I told her not to and sometime's I wanted to throttle her scrawny Neck.

I reported her and told the place that had found me Jean , that if they ever let anyone else Live with this Crazy Bitch , I would go to the papers.

She was taken off their books immediately because I wasn't messing around.

So I know sometimes we just don't know what we are getting ourselves into my friend but the relief you feel when you can walk away from Craziness is just *sigh*  unexplainable.

I wish that for you Skunky

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@ Skunky  That's good , you need to keep pushing those boundaries because they shouldn't even be there.
You're an ADULT and you should be able to come and go as you damn well please.

I'm a mum now but when I was single , I would go off for days and my Parents and Friends just had to trust that I was ok and that I would report back soon as I was ready.

Answer 4

I've known Guys that would get to breaking point in their Lives and get themselves thrown back in Prison . Come out 6 months later feeling Positive and full of drive because they were Free and then 6 months to a year , they would commit some offence and get themselves thrown back inside again.

I tried to understand them because they would explain to me in detail , what drove them back but I just couldn't imagine losing my Freedom. Sitting in a room of Guys describing Prison Life is enough to make anyone stay on the Straight and narrow.

I know Grown Men cry when that Prison Door slams at Night , especially the first Night.

I mean these Guys were hard and you wouldn't mess with them but Prison broke them a little.

Answer 5

None of the prisoners I know like it behind bars, although, some recognize that it is where they belong.

Answer 6

 I love being on the north side of the southern border fence.