And it feels like I´m closed inside a box and that I´m not able to get out from it. It´s like I feel guilty of something I just can´t simply change that easy.
not when it comes to me personaly. But I do feel helpless in that others are in pain and misery while I get to live in realitive happiness. As a sadist, I actualy in ways enjoy thier pain and misery.
As a masochist, I seek that pain misery and helplessness upon myself.
The way my mind works is, I always believe I can come up with a solution. I'm willing to think about it, and I'm willing to change my strategy as I go along. I've always been like this, so when others are stubbornly fatalistic about problems they share with me, it can annoy both of us, because I just don't buy that nothing can be done.
And it feels like I´m closed inside a box and that I´m not able to get out from it. It´s like I feel guilty of something I just can´t simply change that easy.
All the time.
Recently, when I put my dog to sleep. I felt very helpless in the face of her painful cancer. The inevitability of her death excluded change.
'Course
No, not 100% helpless.
The way my mind works is, I always believe I can come up with a solution. I'm willing to think about it, and I'm willing to change my strategy as I go along. I've always been like this, so when others are stubbornly fatalistic about problems they share with me, it can annoy both of us, because I just don't buy that nothing can be done.