If their profile and answers to queries piques your interest meet for coffee. Leave if you don't like them in person. Recently I met with an old, once very cute, boyfriend from high school. He looked terrible . . . until he smiled. The years faded away. But if youʻre interested in someone who turns out to be dishonest all youʻre out is the price of a coffee (arrive late and it will only be your own) and perhaps15 minutes.