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As soon as they saw I was a widower, they came out in droves! LOL and all wanting money! These tattooed, face metal freaks just don't cut it!

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Sirfurryanimal
I’m on Instagram.

Can’t remember when I last logged in.
TheOtherTink

Now just a minute, Rooster!

Those women are genuine gold-diggers, not phony at all.

Well, on second thought, maybe the Nigerian princesses are phony. :)


Rooster TheOtherTink
Never seen so many bullshitters in my life!!!
Dan

I prefer Interest-Based Networks (Interest Graph) such as Reddit, Quora, YouTube, Twitter over Identity-Based Networks (Social Graph) such as FB, Insta. Some people prefer Identity-Based Networks over Interest-Based Networks.

The distinct line between these platforms is not just about features. It represents a fundamental difference in psychological wiring. This split distinguishes Interest-Based Networks from Identity-Based Networks.

Here is the breakdown of why one group often appeals to a specific type of user over the other.

1. Ideas vs. Identity

  • Reddit, Quora, SodaHead: These platforms focus on thoughts and opinions. Users engage to discuss topics, answer questions, vote on viewpoints, or learn new information. The value comes from the content itself.

  • Facebook & Instagram: These platforms focus on personal identity and social standing. The value comes from the person, such as their face, vacations, milestones, and lifestyle.

  • The Distinction: The first group appeals to those who find "performing" an identity exhausting or inauthentic. It favors engaging with ideas and debates without the pressure of maintaining a public persona.

2. The Interest Graph vs. The Social Graph

  • The Social Graph (FB/Insta): The algorithm serves content based on offline connections like friends, family, and acquaintances. This creates a social obligation to consume content simply because a connection exists, regardless of the quality of that content.

  • The Interest Graph (Reddit/Quora): The algorithm serves content based on topics of interest. If a user likes retro gaming or coding, that is what appears. It does not matter if the poster is a neighbor or a stranger. If the content is relevant, it is shown.

  • The Distinction: The Interest Graph is efficient and intellectually stimulating. It allows for a curated feed based on curiosity rather than social obligation.

3. Anonymity vs. Performance

  • SodaHead (and Reddit/Quora): These platforms often allow for anonymity or pseudonymity. This removes the fear of judgment. Users can ask basic questions or share controversial opinions without professional or familial repercussions. SodaHead was known for polls that allowed instant expression without the need for a manifesto.

  • Instagram/Facebook: These are high-pressure environments that function as a "Highlight Reel." Users often curate their lives to appear happier, wealthier, and more attractive than reality. This triggers Social Comparison, which is the psychological drain of comparing a real life to someone else's curated online presence.

4. Text vs. Visuals

  • The Content-Heavy Group: SodaHead, Reddit, Quora, and Twitter are heavily text-based. They require reading, verbal reasoning, and debate.

  • The Visual Group: Instagram and Facebook are heavily visual. They prioritize aesthetics over substance. For individuals who value logic, debate, or humor over aesthetics, visual platforms can feel shallow or unengaging.

5. Why Twitter (X) is the Middle Ground

Twitter fits "to some extent" because it is a hybrid. It functions as an information network for news and ideas, similar to Reddit. However, it is often tied to real identities and can foster vanity, similar to Instagram. It appeals to the Interest-Based user when it acts as a news ticker or debate hall, but it becomes repellant when it shifts toward influencer culture or popularity contests.

Goranko
I do not know if they are real persons or scammers. I used Facebbok and Instagram and deleted my accounts. I use messengers Viber, Telegram, Imo and Snapchat.

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